SOMETHING SIMPLE... “SPEC AND ATTITUDE”

By Sheelarh [@sheelarh]

“A world without guys” hmmm that’s what I heard a lady wish for, don’t worry I quickly said a silent prayer to God not to grant it, and the men folk should totally thank me for that... because when men are yanked off earth that means wonders will finally end, then rapture will now happen, hianme I’m not ready for that o! but na wa guys sha... no it’s not always going to be about you people, but ‘man matter is serious business’  guess that’s why they seem to be making hot topics from the ladies. 

Ever wondered what they really want from ladies, like physical features, because if I ask for character and attitude now, I’ll hear the same thing “good, God-fearing, decent, take-home-to mama, bla bla bla” kinda girl that’s so cliché... so I won’t even ask because when they eventually find these kind of girls they don’t take her to mama, and unfortunately end up with the wrong one, then when she starts taunting you at home, you’ll turn "Dreams Garden" or one of the million other gardens in Abuja to your house... Personally I don’t care what garden you end up in, but please stop discouraging the singles and unmarried... 

Let me sha get back to my focus. Guys, is it possible to have a spec and just stick with it, because today I’ll see "Boy A" with fair, tall, long hair, nicely polished nails, eye-lashes fixed, big ass girl, the next week, same boy will be with black, bald, short, no ass, no boobs, muscular girl (both with totally different attitude o). Later they’ll say ladies are confused....I’m sure my ladies know the kinda guy they need, as for me, I’m not asking a lot just tall, caramel, handsome, four packs (ONLY), God fearing, hard working, intelligent, loving, caring, romantic, oval-face guy will do *wink*... Oya wait joor long and short we all need to know what we really want because in the end, only you will be responsible for your happiness. We need to be attracted to whoever we end up with, physically, sexually, and otherwise... Byeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee *wink*big smile*